Feeling Alone in the Menopausal Abyss? Throw a Party!
11.13.11Going through menopause not only can make you feel like you’re losing your marbles, it can also be pretty isolating. Memory lapses, irritability, fatigue, and a host of other physical symptoms can leave you frustrated, burnt out, and a acting little demented…which can send your friends and family hightailing it to the hills!
Instead of the typical social withdrawal, why not throw a party?
Ellen Sarver Dolgen, author of Shmirshky: the pursuit of hormone happiness, has been bringing women together to teach them about growing older with menopause-themed parties. Or, as we call them here, menoParties! It’s a time to vent, share your menoPaused moments, get informed, feel supported, and boost each other up, all while having a merry time.
Not unlike a support group, these shindigs can help to “normalize” your menopause experience. This is psychology speak for: you’re not the only one going through this and you’re not a freak of nature…you’re simply menopausal. And you can share how it’s anything but simple with women who get it.
Want to throw a menoParty of your own? Invite your gal pals over, have some tasty eats and sips, and read through Menopause Mind together for titillating discussion topics! (How’s that for a plug?)